Skip to main content

His Final Message to the World: Don’t Give Up on Your Dream”

My father’s brother — our dearest Lalu Uncle — went to be with the Lord in October 2025.

He had travelled to Delhi to deliver this TEDx talk, but sadly, he never got the chance. He passed away before he could step onto that stage.

If he had delivered this speech, it would have been one of the most inspiring and viral talks of all time.

Take just 2 minutes to read through his incredible testimony — a journey of failure, faith, resilience, and destiny.



The last speech Abraham Zachariah prepared – to deliver at TEDx

I didn’t go to school. I was sent to school.
Hence, for 10th standard, marks were very low and I could get admission only for Commerce group, as no one wanted (is 55 years ago) in my home state Kerala.
My mother was very upset as my cousins and friends got into Science groups and she pushed me into Commerce Group.
I was used to tell everyone that “Useless fellow, useless fellow, useless fellow are in Commerce Group and all the useless ones are in commerce group.” She was partly right because of me.

On those days, an Uncle of mine came home, she repeated “useless fellow, useless fellow, useless fellow.” His Uncle said, “So what? He can become a Chartered Accountant.” In my life, I had never heard about a profession called Chartered Accountancy till then. Innocently being a village boy, I asked, “No, uncle. Uncle, who is a Shattered Accountant?” “No, no, not Shattered accountant but Chartered Accountant – big man, sitting inside an air-conditioned cabin.”

In Dale Carnegie’s words, he aroused an eager want in me, to become a Chartered Accountant.
After a week, I went for a wedding. There, his uncle was waiting for me. He gave a card to me and said, “Look at that man. He is a Chartered Accountant.” I looked at him. He was a tall and handsome person. That day, I thought to myself, “I must become a Chartered Accountant. I too would also become tall and handsome.”

That evening he went, I went after him. The way he was meeting and greeting well-presented people, and how everyone was over, I found him getting into a big white BMW car, which was like BMW or Mercedes today.
I must become a Chartered Accountant, that was my dream. With full thrust, I joined 1st Accountancy, but in 12th Standard, I ran out of fuel and failed.
My “Chartered Accountant” became “Shattered Accountant.”

Then, I passed B.Com and went to Chennai to pursue my dream – Chartered Accountant.
Ignorance is Bliss. If 12th failed would not have joined for CA, where the pass percentage was just TWO, out of thousand students only 20 were passing every year.
I had a major challenge – I was an English language. I couldn’t speak one full line in English, for others, it was Manglish, worse than what you are listening right now!

For the first CA exam, I did my best, but my best was not even average for CA Institute. I failed. I was not upset having failed in 12th standard. My roommate said, “I have you ever seen a big loser?” I laughed. “What happened, man?” He said, “Last time you will pass or fail. Today you have not passed your exam, yet failed. My roommate said, don’t worry. Look at Senthil and Suresh, both passed. Everyone passed, only I failed. My third roommate said, “That’s the reason I failed, all the three roommates passed.” He laughed at me left me.
Then fifth, sixth, seventh I lost count of it, but not my mother. One day she came to see me. When I asked, she was upset and angry. She said, “You are making me angry. What about your roommate?” Where are you? You said you would make us proud, where are you?” As she was saying this, I could see a sparkle in my mother’s eyes that caused flooding. I vomited, I turned back towards my roommate.

There was a fire in my belly! The same evening, I left for Chennai and burned the midnight oil for Chennai and passed – No one conquered that mother of all exams, Indian Chartered Accountancy; and stood before you proudly.

I shared my game of the CA story – the opening and closing. But it has a middle part, a strange one.
Abdul Kalam has rightly said, if you have a dream, let that dream not give up easily.

It happened to me when I was failing without fail. My father was working in Saudi Arabia. He said, “Why waste your time and my money. Come here, I will arrange an employment, free visa, free accommodation. Everything is free.” I said “No” to him.

It was a do or die situation. Since dying was very complicated, I intensified my actions.
Success is not by accident. If you think you can, you can. Otherwise 12th Standard failed youth have not passed Chartered Accountancy. I am perhaps, the one and only student who failed in 12th Std, passed and became a Chartered Accountant.

Paulo Coelho of The Alchemist has rightly said, “If you have a dream, the Universe will conspire to achieve it for you.” I never believed it until it happened.
I used to fail in the Economics Paper for CA regularly.

The Institute of Chartered Accountants of India, in its rarest of rare decisions, changed the Economics paper in 1985 and that very year that I passed Chartered Accountancy. “If everything fails, the universe will conspire to achieve it for you.”



Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Lost in Two Dimensions

  We gaze at screens, day and night, A world so flat, yet shining bright. Pixels dance, but can’t replace, The warmth of touch, a loved one’s face. No scent of earth, no ocean's breeze, No velvet grass beneath our knees. No taste of rain, no fire’s glow, Just silent echoes, a hollow show. Are we alive, or just a view? A life so crisp, yet missing hue. Step outside, let senses soar, Feel, breathe, taste—be whole once more. # unLearn

18 Health tips for a glowing skin

1. Water tops the list At least 3 litre per day -  The more the better . Water a day keeps pimples away 2.Fruits Oranges,Lemon,Papaya,Pomegranate,Banana are a few of the fruits among the big list. 3. Veggies Spinach ,Beet root ,Cucumber ,Lettuce ,Carrot ,Tomato 4. Avoid non veg. As crazy as this sounds avoid non veg as much as possible especially the deep fried ones! You can have boiled egg it will be enough to satisfy your body's protein content . 5. Avoid coffee and tea Anything with caffeine is bad for skin 6 Green tea Green is great for skin .Add a few drops of  lemon to avoid that raw flavour of green tea 6. Avoid chocolates candies or cookies or kind any DIRECT sugar 7.Drink half a cup of curd/yogurt every day at dinner ! It's a probiotic- useful for your digestive system 8. NO inbetween snacks ! 9. Consume pulses and legumes 10. Nuts- almonds,peanut , cashew. A handful a day will help 11. Juices. It must be home made. Vegetable or fruit ...

To my Dearest Grandmother....

                Cultivating habits like writing a dairy is not a cake walk anymore. Atleast not in this generation where we are all drowning in the ocean of technology. Infact Ayamachi once asked me “ Mole! Ee Phone il entha ullathu? Ellavarum ithu epozhum enthina pidichu kondu nadakunnathu? . Those words hit deep and I realised we are giving more importance to this nonliving man made thing than anything else. Are we carrying the Bible the same way everywhere we go?                     While we jot down our “To Do Lists” Ayammachi has it memorised. There used to be a time when landphones existed  in every house and when she memorised the telephone numbers of her near and dear ones. How many phone numbers can we tell by heart?                   She also has a “Kanaku Pusthakam” where she writes her daily expenses and calculations. She also ...